Sunday, May 16, 2021

Raya treat....We care...

“Terima kasih kerana membantu kami,” exclaimed one petite Indonesian woman as she received her food pack consisting of ketupat, chicken rendang and a pack of light condiments from Pastor Jarren yesterday evening. Her smile and grateful expression on her face says it all, really. As the other workers who had just came back from work started to line up, the team of volunteers consisting of Pastor Jarren , Jionn, Shwu Yuen and Pastor Daniel gave out the special food packs to them. You could see the beaming joy on their faces, the widened smiles and that grateful endeavor in them. I guess, as a volunteer, it really gives me a lot of joy and blessing knowing that all of us in the Hope Kitchen team of City Community Church, Melaka had played a small part in not just feeding the needy but also attending to the comfort of the matters of the heart and mind especially during this difficult time of pandemic and Hari Raya celebrations.

Pst.Daniel, Pst.Jarren, Shwu Yuen and Jionn

Shwu Yuen & Pst.Jarren preparing the Raya food packs

Hope Kitchen, an initiative from the Youth Ministry of City Community Church, Melaka had its first spark sometime in May, 2020 by a group of youth leaders who wanted to do something more for the community. Under the tutelage and leadership of Pastor Daniel and Pastor Jarren, the boys and girls made their rounds at the nearby Malinja flats and saw first hand experience for themselves the reality of living and living conditions of the various migrant workers ( Indonesians, Bangladeshi, Nepali, Myanmar, Cambodians ) and the locals at the flats. Somehow, the trip experience touched their lives and after some discussion, they picked up the idea of Hope Kitchen. Soon ideas flowed and flourished while the initiative took off with the first sharing with the needy during the 1st MCO period whereby many lives were touched with simple food groceries such as rice, salt, sugar, eggs, dried mee hoon, flour and other simple groceries. Needy folks in Banda Hilir, Kg.Jawa, Bukit Baru, Ujong Pasir and many other areas benefitted from this food grocery drive. It has been on-going ever since and with the grace of God, Hope Kitchen has been a blessing to many in the community ever since. With donations and givings in kinds ,thus far, Hope Kitchen had been able to produce approximately 100 packs of food groceries to be given out each time. The team faith grew from a small number to about 100 packs today. Indeed, God has been good and merciful.

Waiting for the workers to arrive...Shwu Yuen, Jionn & Pst.Jarren..

For me, I took part in the latest two events of food grocery giving and Raya food pack blessing which was held yesterday (15/5/2921 ). I had the opportunity to serve together with some really nice people in Bro Shaun, Suzan, Yeona, Sean Teh, Aidan Teh, Jionn, Shwu Yuen, Daniel, Dave, Pastor Jarren and Pastor Daniel. With the raging pandemic and the constant scrutiny for SOP, everyone worked well, masked up, kept our distance and packed the food groceries diligently while spreading a lot of cheer and happiness as we go about packing the food. I guess, everyone is well aware of what we are supposed to do as we took the proper precautions in sanitizing our hands, masks on, keeping distance, wear gloves but ensured that we greeted our recipients well, with much enthusiasm and with cheery quips to boost the atmosphere. Truly remarkable people with wonderful spirit of cheerfulness. Undeterred but always under the watchful eyes of the presence of the police personnels, we made sure that the food groceries were all given out with the proper procedures like registration, temperature recording, a good spray of hand sanitizer and social distancing procedure which were strictly adhered to.
Arrival of the workers and asking them to do safe social distancing........

Giving out the Raya food packs....

I believe that despite all the gloominess of the prolonged pandemic situation, I could not help but noticed that we are truly a joyful lot of people when serving. Everyone is always on high spirits and the right attitude. I guess, all of us understood the need to spread some cheer to the already despairing situation and to lift up the spirits of others.  I guess, it also rings true that it is more blessed to give than to receive thus, bringing joy to others and helping out in whatever way does bring out that inner satisfaction that no one could ever experience. I remembered distinctively when two older folks from the Malinja flats came over to collect the food groceries but they weren’t capable of carrying them, immediately Daniel and Dave volunteered to carry the groceries for them and to their homes. It was really so touching and such a blessing to see such rare acts from these young people nowadays. This reflects very well of their upbringing and mannerism plus effective youth ministry lessons. Personally, to me, nothing beats the gratefulness, the cheer and the smiles we bring to the people with food groceries/food packs in hand. I guess, we would never be able to gauge the joy and the blessings we bring to these folks but I believe, God is watching above us.


Each getting their Raya food treats.....

It is never about glory, fame or populist move to do what they did. The team did it because they had fine examples of giving, blessing and love from GOD, the Elders of the church  ( Pastor Chua, Dr Pang CW and Wong FM ) and the shepherd of the church, Pastor Joanne. This trickling of blessings from the top right to the bottom hierarchy helped in formulating the very essence of the heart of God and serving the people. Like I always say to people out there, you can only do what you see your top fellas do, right? That care, concern and blessings trickled generously from the very top of the church right to the congregation of the church and that made a big difference in our mindset and our journey to do what is right for the community around us.
Nearby migrant worker......

Raya treat food packs.......

Recipient of the last pack of Raya treat food packs....

As we packed up yesterday evening after giving out our final food pack, I can’t help but noticed that there was another bus load of workers who had just arrived after work ; who had missed out the Raya food packs we gave out. Pastor Daniel and I looked at each other and we kinda have the same thought of what if we could have had another 50 Raya food packs to give out to these latecomers. It was already 7.20pm and Pastor Daniel had to sadly informed them that we had given out all of our food packs for the day. You could see the disappointment in some of them but I guess, they knew our limitations too.  Well, Pastor Daniel and I consoled ourselves that we did what we could and we would do better the next time and try not to missed anyone out the next time. Armed with this determination, we prayed that in our next giving, we would be able to help more people in the future! Btw, the food packs were catered from the nearby food vendors ( food condiments ) and food sellers (ketupat & rendang). This is our way to help out the local food vendors and help out their small businesses. At least , they have a chance to eke out a living at these times, don't you agree?

Food condiments......
Food condiments and the ketupat & rendang pack....

On the way back home, I have asked my daughter, Shwu Yuen about her experience of helping out in the Raya food packs distribution that evening. She confided in me that it was truly a wonderful experience of serving as we discussed further of what it meant on the inside of our hearts rather than the exterior service. There was also a wide smile on her face when she informed me of how great the food condiments looked and how grateful the people who received the packs. To me, that’s a quiet satisfaction for me and I’m happy that she was able to serve alongside me and the people who were there that day.

I realized that in this difficult and trying times, everyone is strapped tight in terms of business, monetary planning and even on survival mode. I truly understand your situation and I feel for you.

However, if you would like to help sponsor food stuff or give any financial assistance to help Hope Kitchen or if you really need any assistance in grocery needs ( only in Melaka for the time being, my sincerest apologies!)  the team would be very blessed indeed. You could speak to Pastor Daniel Teo or Pastor Jarren Chua of City Community Church , Melaka or you could email : cityccmelaka@gmail.com

Getting the food packs ready.......

I am not being critical nor being judgemental in any way but I would like to request that may you please seek assistance when you are really in need. Here’s the irony. Last week, a woman in a Honda Accord car came to seek for a pack of food groceries as the team gave out the food grocery packs.  The car was sparkling clean and pretty new while the woman and the driver were decently dressed up. Personally, in my view, they weren’t poor nor seemed to be in need of food grocery pack. Pastor Daniel had to inform them that the packs were meant for the needy only. The woman retorted by saying that she thought it was just free giving out of food groceries! So, she came because she thought it was free NOT because she was in need of it. You get what I mean. So, people, please spare a little thought for the team who worked hard to feed the folks who are really in need. Don’t take away whatever little we can provide for the needy and the low income community. Have a thought for them. Sometimes, they too are shy to come forward to receive any aid. It’s just how it is with the community. Let us all play our part to help the community around us, shall we?

Go ahead, spring up more Hope Kitchens wherever you are and help the community around you. Just stay safe, be safe and have a heart!  


Friday, May 14, 2021

Worthy Lives....

 

Aunty June and me. This 94 year old woman is awesome!

Today I want to share my experience of serving during this difficult pandemic times. I know that what I did was just a very meagre fraction of the many things the people who could have contributed more to the society during these times. It all started in the living room of my home when I had cried my heart out  on some difficulties the family had to face over time and the general anxieties of life. I must acknowledged that we do have a good God who hears our prayers despite our constant barrages of “shopping list” wants and needs to Him! I am no different and I am also a mere human with much flaws and inadequacies but that night in the living room, I cried a lot. There seemed to be a lot of matters to handle and to go through that I was overwhelmed by it.  It was as though I poured out all my sorrows to the Lord and had sought for that one moment of small relief. Well, I have bad news for those who needs constant relief, it is not going to happen! That’s for sure. It’s going to take a lot of soul searching and a lot of reflective thinking when you are dealing with yourself and with matters of the Lord. It was no different for me that night. I just trusted the Lord for His leading in times like this. That night, I asked the Lord for the opening of doors in my life so that I would be in His service and I would rend my heart for what seemed to be a period of hardness I have felt in my life.

As the pandemic worsened each day, SLing and I went on with our lives and then came the call from Pastor Daniel if I could help him out by taking Aunty June for her 1st Covid-19 vaccination at Dewan Tun Ali, Bukit Katil. I have no reservation nor hesitation in agreeing to help out at all. In fact, I would be glad to help out as I told Pastor Daniel. I was to be the driver for Aunty Wong Junetta Gock, a 94 year old “young lady” who stays about an hour drive from my place. Never mind the distance as I was most willing to help. No qualms about that.  She is truly one of the most amazing and inspirational figure I’ve ever met in my life! She is our church member and seeing her was a great encouragement for me. I’ve seen her teach in the Sunday School class in her age and she would put us all in shame when teaching the children of the love of God. Such passion, love and commitment were certainly applaudable but most important of all, she was an epitome of God’s love even in her late age. Truly a remarkable person and a wonderful personality plus she speaks very well and audible. That morning, I drove an hour to meet her and then an hour to the vaccination centre. During the one hour drive, I was absolutely floored by the amount of knowledge this woman had of what is happening in our country and the world! It was the most pleasant journey to be able to speak with someone that knowledgeable. Even though I was just the driver for the day, Aunty June made it a point to engage me with some interesting discussion points and daily matters. It was such a joy being able to engage in such an interesting volume and range of topics. We both had some good laughs on certain matters while the entire process of vaccination was a good experience for her.  I guess, if I could do my part to calm matters and to make it a good process of vaccination for her, I would be glad with that. That day, I just did all I could to ensure a smooth process of vaccination for Aunty June. We even had some photographs together and also at the end of the vaccination. I thank God for Aunty June’s life and such vigour in her spirit for the Lord. I could only marvel at her strength, courage and love despite losing her loving husband, Uncle Peter a number of years ago. Alone, slightly immobile except for the support, she was able to eke out her life daily despite the pandemic. What a woman indeed! God gave me a good lesson that morning of which I am eternally grateful indeed.

Aunty Juneat the completion of the 1st dose vaccination.

Weeks later, SLing and I received a call from Pastor Daniel if we could ferry Aunty Chan,a church member too, to the vaccination centre in Dewan Tun Ali. This time both SLing and I were able to ferry her to the vaccination centre together. Meeting Aunty Chan was indeed a blessing. This petite 83 year old was going for her 2nd vaccination. She too is truly a remarkable woman. We talked happily that morning on various subjects and she was truly a good conversationist. She gave SLing and I two juicy and beautiful looking mangoes and they were truly very good when we ate them later that day. As usual, during the vaccination process, somehow, there was a larger crowd that day. I helped Aunty Chan during the registration and ensure a smooth process for her. There was so much uneasiness at the centre by the larger presence of people whom were identified as pilgrims who would be performing their Haj sometime soon. They were being put together with the older folks who are on their second dose vaccination. I guess, I tried to make it as smooth as possible for Aunty Chan to have her vaccination. It was all done within 40 minutes and soon, we were off to her home. Along the way, SLing and I had asked Auntie Chan if she wanted to have some lunch. She declined our offer but would like to buy a loaf of bread. When I got her the bread, she thanked me and offered to pay for the loaf but I insisted that she need not pay for it. She then said that she would pray for us during her quiet times. To me, that was all we needed and the best deal ever. I was so blessed and impressed with Aunty Chan simply because she is alone since the passing away of Uncle Chan YT but she lived her life the best she could and making the best of what she could. Such strength and tenacity! I guess, it is never easy but she made it through thus far. She is quiet, timid but a woman of faith. I guess, my heart goes out to these two ladies and I am truly blessed listening to their stories and their experiences in life. Their life experiences motivated, refreshed and encouraged me to be a better person in life. I learnt that having faith in God and standing firm to His words helps to refine and mould you in perspective and how you lead your life. I learnt that even in old age, you can inspire many people just like these two “young ladies” whom I have the great honour to be with that day. They are truly beautiful people who just needs a little ear to listen to and an open heart to hear their stories. Afterall, with wealth of life experiences and vast perspective in life under their belt, who wouldn’t , right?

Aunty Chan and me. This petite 83 year old woman is wonderful!

Look , we would all grow old one day. What story would we be telling to the people or even our family members one day? Would it be a good story to inspire or would it be a story of bitterness and sorrows? To me, these two women told their stories with much truth, honesty, enthusiasm and love. Just like everyone else, they do have their ups and downs in life but they lifted their chins up, bear the brunt and moved on in their lives. To the both of them, when they do a count back or take stock of what had happened, God has been good and God is good.

Aunty Chan on her 2nd dose completion of vaccination! Well done!

To me, the greatest lesson I take away from this experience is that when God opens the door to be a blessing – just do it well, listen well and care for the needs. In return, the love, joy and peace in your heart are truly enormous and uplifting. That day, I felt so blessed.

I felt joyful and blessed being able to be the chauffeur for these beautiful ladies that day. Even the most menial works of all, it gives my heart such a warm feeling.  That , my friends, is priceless. No money, power nor status can even come close to that! Priceless!

So, thank you , Aunty June and Aunty Chan for blessing and enriching our lives with your lives!

Brave Front...

People say that as we grow older, we should grow wiser but of late that doesn’t seemed to be with the people governing our country. For many years now, I have always been at the forefront of writing articles or posting humorous satire in the social media that would be forthright and honest but now, there seemed to be a trend to “silence” the public and expression of thoughts by the people This curtailing of freedom of speech and thoughts are a dangerous path in a democratic or rather, an undemocratic country of ours. Surely there is a big difference between inciting the nation into a revolt and an honest heartfelt opinion by a “nobody” of the public. That’s what makes democracy such a unique stand. We agree to disagree on matters and we live in harmony as Malaysia is unique as we are a multiracial society. Some people in our country seemed to forget this fact! I can never stress enough for the saying “absolute power corrupts absolutely! “.

I dare say that everyone of us grew up with the tenets of our country tucked into our hearts and mind. The words of the tenets of Rukunegara will and always will be in our minds, hearts and souls. In fact, every child, men and women are conscious of the Rukunegara as they are all exposed to it as early as 4 years old while in kindergarten until the day they die, I guess. I don’t know about you but I grew up with friends from every layer of society recognizing that special difference in our pigmented skin and we are aptly called Malay, Chinese, Indian, Sikh, Iban, Kadazan and so on. There is NEVER a hint or stench of racism until the arrival of mega politicians, power grabbing , screw loose in the head politicians and religious bigots with big power grab ambitions, religious pariahnism and power greed. The level of respect, tolerant and well-being were at the highest level and still are especially with the right minded rakyats that understood that very unique fabric of respect, harmony and peace. Sure, we do have some stirrers of hate and racial disharmony but in general ( there will always be people like that in any society! ), people from all walks of life understands the meaning of respect, harmony and peace.   

I grew up respecting and getting the same level of respect from my friends of different race and creed. There must be sincerity and good will. Today, that rift of racial discord is ripped so far apart by these so-called brutes of politicians who doesn’t care one bit of what will ever happen to the rakyat as a whole. They continue to show discord and spew hatred and poison the minds of the people just so they could stay in power. Recently, mentality frame of people are so warped that even a simple Good Friday greeting can be such a stigma to some people.  Are we so weak in our religious beliefs that even a simple faith greeting will deviate us from our religious faith? Cowards is what I would call them. Stand on your feet and have some balls or else even the balls you are having will be chopped off or easily tucked in between your own legs! There is nothing shameful of standing on your faith because that is what makes us all human beings in the first place. I am reminded by a quote  by one of my late dad’s friend, Pakcik Mahmud who says “Without religion and faith, human beings are like wild animals in the jungle.” This is indeed so profound.  Distrusts, all sorts of threats, race supremacy, religious bigotry and social injustice have been the order of the day. I believe, many well minded Malaysian from all races and religious background are with me when I say “ PLEASE STOP DIVIDING THIS NATION!”

I am particularly irked with politicians and religious people who continue to spew false sense of security and mind invasion thoughts of conversion, political dominance, race championing and religion championing and so on. NO ONE in this country is contending against anything in this country! These are all political games and fear tactics to poison the people’s minds.  All of us knows where our places are. All of us do understand what is special privilege and no ONE is questioning that! Is the country any better when only one particular race is the governing body? In actual fact, no one made a noise if one particular race governs the country. The big question is and always will be : Are we any better than what we have been? The golden question of the citizens of this country : Is Malaysia getting any better economically & development, progress in the nation – morally, socially and spiritually and most important of all, are we safe?

We allowed the biggest scandals and corruption cases  in our country happened during our watch, people. Billions and millions of ringgits were siphoned off under the noses and pretext of development seed. OMG, the foul stench of corruption in terms of billions and millions are so rampant and blatant. We should be ashamed of ourselves that our country economy is in the doldrums. We should be ashamed to our children and children’s children. We allowed our sacred trust of the nation to robbers, thieves, corrupters and religious bigots to whitewash our country and bring our country to the forefront of world’s mockery. What a shameful state our beloved nation, Malaysia had become! Our country became the laughing stock and butt of jokes from every news station around the world! We are now world famous and renown for the different reasons nowadays. Our nation used to be the Tiger of South East Asia but today we are like stray pussy cat awaiting scraps thrown by rich owners of the region. Even Indonesia and Thailand, our nearby neighbours are moving towards a greater nation while we can only see the dust off our nearest neighbour, Singapore. Don’t get me wrong. I love our nation but we have fallen off the grid so far in terms of development and moving ahead with times. Instead, we are still fighting poverty, religious issues, unemployment, illegal immigrants and lately stupidity and more confusion when facing a global pandemic. It is embarrassing when our leaders falter time after time in speeches, actions and deeds and yet they still become “bodoh sombong” as my good friends used to say. We languished far down in development and in our economic sectors and yet, we conveniently say our economics are good and on track when even our neighbouring countries shunned down our currency while foreign investors are shying away from investing in our country economics citing political instability.  What a shame indeed!

It is just time for our leaders to wake up, stop bickering like little spoilt brats and get their ass off the chairs and start working……..properly. For far too long, we have ministers expansion in bodies & numbers for political reasons and strengthening but yet works are not done to benefit the people. Just look at all the confusing SOPs for the pandemic situation the country is facing and the laughable suggestions that all of this will go away with a drink of warm water! How the hell are the people going to get their business up and running with such confusing SOPs?  Even the fines implementations are equally moronic, nonsensical and double standard especially to the VIPs and the public in general. All this ought to anger the general public but surprisingly, the public had been cool, constraint and collected up till today. However, I believe a storm is brewing fast and thick when stupid implementation of fines and SOPs are further introduced.

Look, my dear government of the day and politicians, the public is NEVER your enemy. But if you continue to treat your rakyats as enemy, the consequences are so dire indeed. The public had awakened from their long slumber that the power to change the government of the day is in their hands by votes and by working together as one Malaysia and not by the manipulations of frog jumping, reward induced politicians and cross-overs. These jumpers generally don’t do well traditionally during the next coming election.  Yes, it would take 4 years of suffering but it can be done as times does flies these days, don’t they?

I am often reminded of what Mark Twain once said about government of the day. It goes like this : “Loyalty to country ALWAYS. Loyalty to government , when it deserves it.”  I am definitely taking this stand!