Today I read with disgust one posting from a notable FB person namely Syed Azmi about a mother who defended her daughter after being sexually abused by a 15 year old relative. I felt so much sympathy , sadness and much distressed for the affected mother and child. According to the posting, the mother of the sexually abused child had taken her daughter to the hospital for check-up and confirmed the abuse. She even went to the police station to lodge a police report which is the right thing to do. However, sadly, her family and relatives are not agreeable to her actions. Instead of supporting her, I guess, they heaped all sorts of “stories” on the mother and so on. This is truly cruel and the type of mentality that bred this monstrous actions on the child. Plenty of cover-ups and "wayang kulit" as they people used to say!
It is utterly nonsense that by mere looking at a woman in short skirt gives us unhealthy thoughts and make our dongs go up and our head goes spinning with all sorts of incontrolable desires. It doesn’t matter too that if a woman has bigger breast or if she is wiggling her ass that she is seducing you. To me, that’s a dickhead sick thoughts! Well, I would suggest you close your eyes or gorge your eyes out as suggested by your own religious faith and go to hell, you bloody pervert! If by having a banana or a cucumber, an aubergine, a carrot or a radish brings out the sexual desires in you to have sex then you had better be burned in eternal hell for having such thoughts or you should be castrated by Law if there are enough lawmakers to pass such laws. Perhaps, we can have a completely eunuch cabinet of ministers by the end of the year then! Insolent idiots and morons! So, how does an innocent child brings out the desire in you for you to do such monstrous act? Despicable low life!
I cannot understand any religion in the world that teaches us to have such desirous thoughts and such Satanic views! For many years now, 63 years to be precise and exact, many of us in this country had to endure such narrow, sadistic and perverted views of how we should dress, what we should eat and how we should act in our society. We are and always will be a multi-racial society. Every one of us no matter , we are Malay, Chinese, Indian, Kadazan, Sikh, Iban and others respects one another culturally, way of life and religious faith including understands perfectly what sexual abuse is all about. Every one of us understand what RAPE is and what sexual abuse on children IS! It is horrendously wrong and despicable act of human violation! Sure, there are bad apples of people in every level of our society today but to hurt children is a GRAND NO not just in my eyes but in the eyes of GOD. I believe, every religion in the world teaches us NOT to hurt children. So, Stop abusing the children. STOP CHILD marriages! I cannot and will not EVER condone and accept any logic that a victim should marry the rapist who physically violated her in the first place! What type of sick mentality are we condoning to? As leaders and people who should protect children and women, we chose to treat these young girls and women like dirt and not worthy of any worth. We, as citizens of this country should be ashamed for every child sexually abuse, any underage girl/boy rape or sexually abused and every woman/man who was raped against her/his will. Instead, we cowardly hide behind our religious cloak and try to sweep everything under the carpet and proclaimed “amicably settled” through religious avenue. Violation of the Law is a violation of the law. There are no two ways about it. Somehow some unscrupulous people who deemed themselves as defenders of the law sometimes goes through the crevices of the weakness of the system to allow such scumbags to go scot free on technicality. I often wonder ………..not insinuating anything though….just my wondering…..
Goodness gracious, people! Rape is rape and it is a crime. It is punishable by the Laws of this country. What happened to “ Kedaulatan Undang-Undang” as we stand to recite this from 7 years old till 18 years old reciting this week after week during our school assembly? Is this just a phrase or is this the tenets of our Rukunegara? I find it truly disgusting that the victim is often repelled for being “gatal” and immoral while the perpetrator is often deemed as being “seduced”! To me, such people with such thoughts and ideas should be stoned to death! Yes, it would not be a matter to you if it is not your daughter or your sister or your mother being hurled such names. But if it is your daughter, your sister or your mother, you would quickly jump off your seats and bayed for blood.
It makes me sick that we have a Doraemon Minister together with a string of monkeys and morons running our government system and country today. It is no secret that paedophiles and sexual predators make their glorious home here in Malaysia and South East Asia in particular and prey towards our children and young girls. What? Airport security or border security could not check on these paedophiles and sexual predators? Come on, we can catch a woman who stole for her starving kids from a supermarket but we cannot detect these sexual predators? Why? International Police or Interpol or FBI, CIA, Scotland Yard, KGB, Mossad or polices around the world are not co-operating or dead? Yes, we blame the NET for the influences and for practically everything in our failure of parenting but don’t forget that as adults, we have a great responsibility to ensure that these bad influences do not encourage nor reach our children. Some parents don’t even know where their children are every night and yet we easily give up and give excuses that we cannot do anything about our children because of such influences that exists. Shameful is what I would say to them. Look at Mat Rempits. Look at kids wandering in the night and highways with their bikes and so on. I often wonder where are their parents! What insolent parents, really.
I pull no punches and I minced not my words on such acts. If you had travelled down the highways and see those Rempits doing their “stunts”, don’t you just feel for their parents? Btw, some of these Rempits are college/university students, my dear people! How many people are NOT aware of this? It is fascinating indeed when people say they don't know about this. Fascinating or hiding from the truth? People who streamed their lives and pull stunts on the highways are on the taxpayer's money! Your taxes and my taxes! Yeah, gone are the days when these people were easily the uneducated and we would gladly blame it on them for convenience. BTW, even today, the uneducated do not want to do these type of things anymore as living is hard enough while earning a living to sustain the family seemed to be far more important today. It is these same PTPTN educated buffons that are doing these stunts at the highways and byways, people! Please, face the truth and this is the stark truth staring straight into our faces. The more we deny it, the more faeces will splatter to our faces and caused us much embarrassment.
Today, I stand in support of the mother who is protecting her sexually abused 5 year old daughter to not to withdraw the police report and make a stand. This is a despicable act that should not be condoned in the first place. People will always pry you into the forgiveness stand but remember this, how would you, as a mother, ever explained what had happened to your daughter when she learns about this? Would say to her, “ I did what I am supposed to do which is to forgive because of pressure from family” or “ I protected you because you are my daughter and I want you to know that I am your mother and I would love and protect you, always.”
I also stand against any parents who would sacrificed their daughters/sons for any sexual favours or favours of whatever means or to consolidate businesses, partnerships or to pay off debts or whatsoever. This is a deplorable act of insanity and a real disgrace. Cultural, choice or whatever, this act is despicable, wrong and humiliating. If you ever create any trouble in your family and your wife and children are at stake, you might as well get yourself a one way ticket to the 6 x4 plot rather than putting your family at stake. You can quote me on that! This is especially for gamblers, loan shark defaulters and whatever trouble you may be in. get your head straight and settle your own problems rather than dragging your wife and children into this. I have seen far too may families literally torn apart by such acts of stupidity and selfishness. If you can dig the problem hole that big, you can most certainly put yourself in the hole and bury yourself in it and drag no others with you!
My message today is simply this : STOP the sexual abuse! STOP Child Marriages! STOP hurting children! You bet, I am damn pissed!~
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